Year 2

Year 2
The Great Wall

Saturday, September 5, 2009


OK, here is classic "chinglish"...Chinese-English.
We see it everywhere we go.
I see a career here for us when we become fluent in Chinese...someone has got to help them translate signs....

Friday, August 14, 2009

10 Things About China

1. People drive like nothing I have ever seen before. And even worse- people walk out into the middle of it to cross the street!! Traffic lights mean nothing. We were almost in 3 wrecks today on the way to the other side of the city in a cab.

2. People who do not drive ride bikes and mopeds, up to 4 per bike. They can pile whole families on one moped. And they really do not even hold on.

3. There is no rush on anything here, but if they are waiting on you, you will hear about it. Confusing to me.

4. Split pants are alive and well, even in a major city of 8 million people where we live. If you do not know, babies and toddlers do not wear diapers but pants with a slit where the babies crack is, front to back. If they have to go, they squat down where they are and have at it....yes, a little disgusting, but not as bad as the poor mom/grandmom picking junior up afterward.....beyond gross.

5. There are buildings in terrible shape, but a crew of 10 was out cleaning the guardrail between the two lanes of traffic in front of our complex. Again, I ask my favorite question.....why?

6. People here are really friendly. They are very curious about us, but very nervous about talking to us. The language barrier is a big issue. If they think you know Chinese, they will talk and talk to you.

7. The grocery store is a very foriegn place for me and it takes me twice as long to shop. Many labels are in English, but some are not and you kinda have to guess. What we thought was salt was MSG. But we are trying our best to find things we like to cook so we do not have to eat out every meal.

8. Eating out can be very very cheap if you do not really care what you are eating. We ate Korean last night and ate lamb, goat ish meat, pork of some kind, some slimey verggies, etc.....but the bill was only 50 RMB for me and Bob.....comes to about $7.50.

9. Squat pots need to be outlawed.

10. Chinese like very firm, hard beds. When they delivered our new bed, I thought they had forgotten the mattress and just brought the boxsprings. Yes, I am serious, that hard. But I got a big piece fo foam today to put on the bed so tonight I may actually get sleep and be able to walk in the am.....TG!!!!!

Thanks for thoughts!!! We can feel it and we sure have needed it. This is definately a foriegn land we are living in!!!!!!

Friday, July 31, 2009

In a "nut" shell....

August 1st 2009

Sorry it has taken so long for me to blog, but we really do not have internet and are “freeloading” off a neighbors we think. I have not had a lot of free time to sit and blog anyway so I have a lot to catch you all up on.

We finally made it to Wuhan on Monday morning around 11:00 am. And the biggest miracle is that all 24 of our bags made it too!!! (Airport trick- put “markers” on all your bags to find them quickly and easily at baggage claim- we had orange ribbon on all of ours).
We were greeting by our principal, Doug, and Becky, a teacher at the school. It was so good to see friendly, familiar faces!!
We loaded all the bags on the bus, in the rain, and headed to our apartment. We checked it out and then immediately headed to the school. We were tired, but ready to see what we would be doing and where we were to be working. Bob’s office is actually two doors down from me…..joy. My room was a wreck, but I saw potential there. We ate lunch- real Chinese food, not American version- and then I went back to my room to start setting it up. We were tired, but still just excited to finally have arrived.
Later we went to the apartment, unpacked some, and went to the principal’s house for dinner. By then, the kids were wiped out and the younger 3 crashed on the sofa and never even saw dinner…lol.

We all slept great that night, but since our times were all messed up we were up by 5. But that has slowly moved later and later. Today (Saturday) we all got up between 8 and 9, so we are back to normal and it only took a week!!!

So….as far as going out in the real Chinese world, we have been to various stores to get food and things for our apartment. And let me tell you, we have experienced the real China and how different things are over here.
First of all, there is chocolate in China!!! They have a lot of our brands- Cadbury, a little bit of Hersheys, and Dove. But they also have ice cream!!! And it is good!!! TG!!! A teacher from the school went shopping with us and suggested these ice cream bars called Magnums and they are the best ice cream treats ever!!! So I am very happy with the chocolate situation!!!!

Second, we are a little freak show to the Chinese people. Not only are we white, but we have 4 children. When we go in the stores, all the people stare at us. Not only that, but store workers come and stand on the aisle with us- as many as 3 or 4 of them. It is so funny. We have not been approached very much, only stared at. Oh, and one guy on the street near the school counted our kids (in English) three times looking at me each time like “could it possibly be?”

Third, the meat department in the grocery stores would be a DHEC nightmare in the states. Not only is fresh meat laying out everywhere, unwrapped and ready for purchase, but so are live fish, snake, toads, turtles, and other scary creatures. The area with cooked meats has chickens, feet and heads still attached. And the smell is pretty bad. But we have been able to find western meats too- Hormel ham in packs and steaks. Chicken is really cheap; Chinese do not eat it often and actually think it unhealthy.

Fourth, trying read labels and figure things out is tricky. Madeline and I tried to find salt last night and we never knew for sure if what we were buying was salt until we got home. It was, but not like our salt- not as “salty”. We have been buying a lot of Chinese treats to try- cookies, candies, sweets. Some are great and some not so great. But we have to try and see. And treats are really cheap- like 30 cents for a large pack of cookies.

Fifth, money is really easy to use here. All prices are in RMB. To kinda see in your head how much something is in our prices, divide by 7. So a pillow for 19 RMB is really about $2.70. And yes, that is what I paid for a bed pillow. Prices for things are pretty cheap- 1.70 RMB for a pack of candy ($.28), loaf of fresh bread 5.8 RMB ($.80), 2 liter Sprite 5.8 RMB ($.80)….more to come.


Besides school and shopping, we have been meeting and getting to know the staff. There are a lot of great people here with our school and we have gotten to have dinner with several of them and really enjoyed that- spaghetti, Mexican, even real Chinese food cooked by the principal’s Ayi ( more Ayis later).
Last night was a really interesting evening with school friends. We went to Pizza Hut. It was really good and not any more expensive than in the states. We were eating and noticed a Chinese lady go up to the salad bar. Becky told us to watch her and that she would be up there another 20 minutes. I was like no way, but she said, in China you can share 1 salad with the whole family, but you can only make one trip. So they make it into a piece of art. I took a picture of it, but not sure it can out well enough to show how really hard she worked on this salad. It was huge!! She build stacked up walls of cucumbers all the way around and did giant piles of tomato, cheese,etc. And then added more lettuce. It was amazing!!!

After dinner we went to Carrefour, a French Wal-Mart. And we finally felt like we were really in China. The crowds and noise were amazing. We found lots we needed, checked out, walked out and remembered it was Friday night at 8:00 and it was a party- people everywhere. So we went to the bus stop (in the rain again- rainy season right now). We waited and waited and waited on a bus. Finally it came and it was packed!!! We all stood huddled together right at the door. It was insane. We learned not to take a bus on Friday night any more.

So now it is Saturday about lunch time. We just ate and are getting ready to go to “fellowship” at 4:00. We have it on Saturday, not Sunday. We all go to dinner together afterward, which we are really excited about. So, I need to wrap it up and go shower.
Continue to remember us. We can sense that you are.
Blessings,
Angie

We are here! We are Here!! WE ARE HERE!!!

July 26th, 2009 Beijing, China

We arrived in Beijing, China at 8:00 pm. It was really strange because we slept 5 hours on the plane, woke up, ate dinner, and were told we would be arriving soon and it was evening. It was like we had slept all night and most all of the day!
When we got all our bags (24 in all) a guy told us the airline would be putting us all (others too missed the flight) up in a hotel in Beijing. So we all boarded a very crowded bus and drove to the hotel. It was a very nice hotel, but since our days were nights and our nights were days, it was difficult to decide what we were to do. After they fed us a very traditional Chinese dinner, we all tried to sleep a little before leaving at 5:00 am for the airport to hopefully make it to our new home.

Water in China is un-drinkable and we all woke up this morning (I am sitting in the hotel lobby now as I type this) very very thirsty. I asked the hotel attendant where we could get water. No real answer. Asked in the restaurant- was told no. Asked again if we could just buy some water. We were all parched. Still was told no, or not understood.
This really made me think about how simple a thing water is and how we take it for granted. But while we lacked water to drink, the Chinese people lack the real water. That is the real need and it is hitting me now. Thirst is real and all people have it, whether they know it or not.

Here goes nothing...no here goes EVERYTHING!!!!

July 25th


Bright and early on Saturday, July 25th, the six of us stepped out on faith. We left Charlotte Douglas airport at 9:25 am and arrived at JFK International 80 minutes later with a uneventful flight. The kids were super excited and super nervous about, what was for 3 of them, their first flight. Jack was really anxious so we prayed together for travel mercies and his nerves. It thrilled my heart the way he automatically turned to pray in times of fear.
After a four hour layover and an hour delay, we were finally on our way out of the country. As we boarded the flight, I reminded the kids as they started down the walkway this was their last few steps on American soil for quite a while. It was a surreal feeling, as much of this has been.
After we were onboard the sweltering aircraft (had to have been 85 with dead air- sweltering), we sat for 2 hours never really understanding what the hold up was. We had a flight to catch from Beijing to Wuhan that we were not going to make, but we just had to trust it would all work out- even on the other side of the world.

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Life on Fast-Forward

That is really how it feels. We got home from training, were in Gaffney 5 days, and left again for the beach!!! I am down here without B0b- he is at home getting things ready to leave. I am here, in Charleston with my whole family having a ball! When we get home, we get to leave exactly 1 week later!!!

I have so much to do, but I am putting off going home, it would seem. I have some shopping to do, cleaning out to do, a few more goodbyes, and then trying to pack 6 people for 2 years...how to do that?

We are excited and apprehensive about this. It seemed so far off, so remote, and now that it is almost here, it seems surreal. I do not know how to explain it. Kinda like when the dermo called me and said, " you have skin cancer- gotta have surgery"

I probably will not be on here any to post the next week so my next post will be from China.
Please, Please PLEASE think about my family the next few weeks- intently and by name- Bob, Madeline, Jack, Brady, Charlotte, and me, Angie. We need individual, specific thought as we go and travel- for our nerves, our attitudes, our patience, our discernment, and our stamina.

If you will commit to doing this, please post here and let me know.
I appreciate it so much. Expect to hear from us soon- from the other side of the world!!!

Saturday, June 20, 2009

June 17th Random Thoughts

Just some random thoughts as we travel, yet again, further north to New York. Bob and I were talking about how many things in our lives in the past few years that now we see where preparing us for this trip. It is just amazing to me…
1. We have lived in an old house that is impossible to heat without going bankrupt. We kept the temperature at around 63 degrees all winter. We will be living in a city that is very cold in the winter and the apartments are hard to heat. They warned us that is can be cold, even indoors. We were like, no problem.
2. As far as “luxuries” we had none in our old house- no dishwasher, no DVR or TiVo, only one bath with shower, and no master bath at all- only a hall bathroom. Again, they were warning us about the absence of these type things and we were like no problem.
3. We were warned about mud and dirt, how easy it is to track in and how you have to learn to take shoes off at the door always. We do this anyway and especially now that we live in the apartment at my mom and dad’s house. We have no choice- when you park, if it has rained in the last 3 days, you are in the mud. Got me and Madeline really cool rainboots; trying to get Charlotte some too.
4. Three years ago I was beginning to work with the youth again and I really wanted to help with high school age. But through Dad’s leading I ended up helping with the college age. I have never felt led to work with that age. I could definitely feel that I was being lead to serve in that area. So I have and have loved it – really, really loved it. Now, as we plan to go, I have spoken with several teachers and “others” in China who “work” with college age students. College coffee houses are a very big part of the work going on there. And I feel very excited to be a part of that area of “work”. Four years ago I would have not felt confident or able to serve in this area.
5. I fought Dad about homeschooling my boys the second half of this year. After Thanksgiving, before we even discussed moving, I felt they needed to be at home with me for a while, But I put it off until mid-January. When I did pull them out, I felt a big sense of peace in them and me. They were not stressed about school anymore and I was actually excited. It has not been a walk in the park, but I was not as worried about their school abilities as I was their hearts, attitudes, and obedience. So we have been working on school subjects 40% of the time and their “life skills” the other 60% of the time. We have made great strides in these areas- and we will continue with this aspect of homeschooling always.
6. Buying a car- I have been driving the same old van for 10 years. It is in the beginning stages of being on life-support. We started looking for a new car over a year ago. We found several we liked; we had many opportunities to buy what we wanted. But when I would sit back and “think” about it, it never felt “right”. So we kept waiting and waiting. And then, we realized this was what we were to do and we were thankful we didn’t “jump the gun” on buying a car when it definitely was not part of the plan.
The van is slowly falling apart- doors both are tearing apart, window on driver’s side will not roll down, handle on back hatch broke off, radio station nob is gone, controls on drivers door have decided to pop up, CD player quit working, DVD player we can hear but no picture, and best of all- all the seats are getting tears in the leather where it has worn thin- fixed of course with duck tape. Our car will make quite the first impression for us when we arrive at training in another hour or so. Just think “positive thoughts” that it will last til we leave for China.


We are just amazed at how things work together for our good, whether we see it or not. I am sure there are many instances like this at work in your life too. Stop and notice and you will be amazed. We are so wrapped up in our own little lives that we don’t see how it all fits together. It is a humbling experience to say Your way, not mine and mean it. But it is an amazing experience to say, Wow! That is why! I see now and thank Daddy.